Al. Sillars et al., MARITAL COMMUNICATION AND THE PERSISTENCE OF MISUNDERSTANDING, Journal of social and personal relationships, 11(4), 1994, pp. 611-617
This research examined spouses' understanding of their partners and th
e relation of understanding to the amount of communication in marriage
. The results showed that spouses overestimated agreement with their p
artners; therefore, understanding scores were low after response simil
arity (i.e. agreement) was factored out. Reported communication had a
complex relation to understanding. Communication had a slight positive
association with wives' understanding of husbands' instrumental perce
ptions and a negative association with wives' understanding of compani
onate perceptions. Communication was not associated with husbands' und
erstanding scores. The results partly supported previous research in w
hich communication had a stronger relation to understanding of instrum
ental perceptions than to understanding of abstract, relational (i.e.
companionate) perceptions.