The effective locations of the lone pairs at the oxygens of formaldehy
de, acetone, and diethyl ether were examined using several criteria: t
he minimum in the Laplacian of the charge density (rho), the minimum e
lectrostatic potential, the position of hydrogen bonding to water and
hydrogen fluoride, and the position of protonation. Whereas the charge
density about a carbonyl or ether oxygen is essentially featureless,
the Laplacian of rho and the electrostatic potential both show minima
at locations that correspond to a common picture of the lone pairs. Th
e interaction of a carbonyl oxygen with a lithium cation prefers a 180
degrees C-O-Li angle, whereas protonation prefers a 115 degrees C-O-H
angle. Lewis acid bonding to formaldehyde prefers a C-O-M, angle of a
bout 120 degrees. Hydrogen bonding leads to a very soft bending potent
ial and C-O-H angles of about 120-130 degrees. This suggests that the
geometries for hydrogen bonding found in X-ray crystallographic studie
s may in large measure be determined by crystal forces. The effect of
substitution at the carbonyl group on the electrostatic potential also
was studied.