The Theory of Individuation predicts systematic differences in argumen
tative behavior between mothers and their adolescent daughters. Accord
ing to this theory, control is assumed as a major relational intention
of mothers, whereas daughters are assumed to rather show intentions o
f individualisation. The confrontation of oppositional intentions is e
xpected to produce specific sequential regularities in the utterances.
The focus of this paper is on the identification of systematic betwee
n turn sequences of verbal units in 60 discussions between 30 dyads of
mothers and their adolescent daughters. Every dyad discussed two ever
yday issues identified as relevant conflicts for them. The discussions
were tape-recorded and transcribed for further analyses. Units of com
munication were determined and categories of conversation management w
ere considered: initiatives and positive and negative responses to ini
tiatives. Arguments were categorized according to their function: supp
orting, modifying, weakening, accepting or rejecting the position or a
n argument. The data were analyzed using lag-sequential analyses. The
following significant sequences occured: Argument confrontation (count
er-arguments were met by counter-arguments), and reciprocity (positive
and negative responses to arguments were followed by responses of the
same quality) were particularly salient. With mothers, in particular,
repetition of initiatives could be identified. The results are compat
ible with the assumptions drawn from Individuation Theory.