Using 1987-88 National Survey of Families and Households data from res
idential parents of young children (n = 5,686) this study describes di
fferences by gender and family structure in social support relationshi
ps with parents, siblings, other relatives, and friends. Mothers, over
all, are more involved in giving and getting support, especially emoti
onal support, than fathers. When contrasted with traditional family pa
rents, fathers in nontraditional two-parent families show more evidenc
e of reduced kin interaction than mothers. Single mothers and fathers
are more involved with parents, and single mothers extend this increas
ed involvement to relationships with siblings. But beyond this it is f
riends, not other kin, who figure most prominently in the social suppo
rt relationships of nontraditional families.