In order to explore the relation between love and war, I apply a theor
y showing the affinity between romance, shame, and anger in a classic
text. Shakespeare's plays present an exceedingly grim portrait of the
relationship between men and women. Even his lighthearted treatment of
this theme in Much Ado about Nothing suggests that love between a man
and a woman involves unending tension and conflict, much like the con
tinuous distrust, deception, and outright warfare between nations. A c
lose reading of the text of Much Ado shows shame/anger sequences both
in conventional courtship (Hero and Claudio) and in the unconventional
relation of Beatrice and Benedick Both relationships involve infatuat
ion. My analysis suggests that acknowledging shame and anger between m
en and women may be an important first step toward resolving their con
flict.