The present article examines how forms of address figure in the lives
of older people. From the perspective of discursive psychology (eg., E
dwards and Potter 1992, Potter and Wetherell 1987), we consider a numb
er of samples of address exchange and show how forms of address may be
used to enhance and diminish status and solidarity and to construct s
ocial identities for the older person. We examine the relationship of
address forms to features of institutions and of institutional practic
es, to divergent interests of participants, to constructions of the na
ture of aging and to problems of politeness. The notion of symbiotic p
ower is proposed as a way of reconceptualizing the powerlessness and d
ependence associated with aging. We consider how the realization of th
at power through the strategic deployment of forms of address by older
people can help to maintain status and the integrity of self.