This study examined relations between mother-infant affect synchrony and th
e emergence of children's self-control. Mother-infant face-to-face play and
infant difficult temperament were examined at 3 and 9 months. Maternal and
infant affective states at play were coded in 0.25-s frames, and synchrony
was computed with cross-correlation functions. Self-control, verbal IQ, an
d maternal warm discipline were assessed at 2 years. Maternal synchrony wit
h infant affect at 3 months (infant-leads-mother-follows relation) and mutu
al synchrony at 9 months (cross-dependence between maternal and infant affe
ct) were each related to self-control at 2 years when temperament, IQ, and
maternal style were partialed. Infant temperament moderated the relations o
f synchrony and self-control, and closer associations were found between mu
tual synchrony and self-control for difficult infants. Shorter lags to mate
rnal synchrony at 3 months were independently related to self-control. The
mutual regulation of affect in infancy, as moderated by temperament, is pro
posed as an important contributor to the emergence of self-regulation.