Reproductive strategies of males and females usually differ and, as a conse
quence, may impose asymmetric costs of reproduction on the two sexes and re
sult in conflict between the sexes. In spiders, males do not provide parent
al care and females can store sufficient sperm for several clutches. These
characteristics define the stage for a conflict between males and females t
hat occurs mainly over the frequency of mating. Factors such as sexual size
dimorphism, operational sex ratio, mating system and life-history strategi
cs are likely to influence the degree of conflict and its outcome for diffe
rent species. Male spiders may suffer large costs of mating due to mate sea
rch, assessment of female condition, courtship and cannibalistic tendencies
of their mates. Courtship may reduce cannibalism, although in some cases,
males benefit from being cannibalised by having an increased fertilisation
rate or greater offspring fitness. In some species, limited mating capaciti
es will increase the value of the current mating relative to future reprodu
ction. Apart from a possible benefit of genetic variability within a clutch
, females may not benefit from multiple mating and multiple mating may even
be costly. Exceptions occur if additional resources are provided by males
or when offspring fitness increases with additional mating. Forced copulati
on, prey theft, loss of the web and reduction of foraging time can all resu
lt in reduced reproductive success for females. We discuss the interacting
influences of life-history traits (especially patterns of growth and matura
tion and sexual size dimorphism) and the reproductive strategies of males a
nd females, using a semelparous spider, Stegodyphus lineatus (Eresidae), as
an example of a species in which males and females can have strongly confl
icting interests.