The dilemmas in counselling a mildly retarded female with the fragile X syn
drome and her retarded partner are presented. The fragile X syndrome is an
X linked mental retardation disorder that affects males and, often less sev
erely, females. Affected females have an increased risk of having affected
offspring.
The counselling of this couple was complicated by their impaired comprehens
ion which subsequently impaired their thinking on the different options. Th
e woman became pregnant and underwent CVS, which showed an affected male fe
tus. The pregnancy was terminated. Whether nondirective counselling for thi
s couple was the appropriate method is discussed and the importance of a sy
stem oriented approach, through involving relatives, is stressed.