This study examines the ways in which 360 Israeli adolescents, and 395 midl
ife adults looking retrospectively perceive significant individuals from th
eir adolescence. Following the methodology developed by Hendry el al. (Jour
nal of Adolescence 1992, 15, 255-270), participants were asked to chose the
most significant family and non-family individuals in their adolescent liv
es, and to indicate which of a number of characteristics applied or did not
apply to their chosen significant persons.
Our results indicate that most of the adults and the adolescents chose a pa
rent as the most significant relative in their adolescence and that females
in both samples chose their mothers more than did males. Compared with ado
lescents, adults attributed, retrospectively, more negative characteristics
to their parents (e.g. as being mollycoddlers and rejectors). Adults were
more likely to mention their teachers as significant non-family individuals
in their lives and to characterize them in terms of their future impact as
teachers and role models. Adolescents referred more positively to their pa
rents, they also chose more friends of the same or opposite sex as signific
ant others, and characterized them in terms of present oriented features as
being supporters and challengers.
The results highlight the importance of analysing the meanings attributed t
o significant individuals in adolescence from the perspectives of different
developmental stages. (C) 1998 The Association for Professionals in Servic
es for Adolescents.