If psychoanalysis is first and foremost a romance of the familiar, then its
simultaneous role as a theory of therapeutic change might appear incongruo
us, if not contradictory. Nevertheless, much attention has been paid, in th
e years following Freud's death, to the development of a psychoanalytic the
ory of the mechanisms of change, although the psychoanalytic study of the a
esthetics of change (according to Freud's use of the term, in which "aesthe
tics is understood to mean nor merely the theory of beauty but the theory o
f the qualities of feeling" [S. Freud, 1919/1955b, p. 219]) has been less t
horoughly attended to. It is to this latter sort of psychoanalytic account
of change that this article speaks. Specifically, the author inquires into
the forms and genesis of one particular aspect of the psychoanalytic aesthe
tics of change, which arises when the patient's progress in psychotherapy a
rouses a sense that she or he is leaving behind a more disturbed version of
herself or himself, for a new and largely unfamiliar one, with intolerable
consequences.