Purpose: To identify the content, characteristics, and comfort level of dis
cussions about sexuality held between mothers and their early adolescent ch
ildren and to determine the extent to which the conversations predicted sex
ual values and initiation of sexual intercourse of the adolescent.
Methods: This was part of a larger study to evaluate the impact of personal
family characteristics on human immunodeficiency virus risk-reduction beha
vior among low-income predominately African-American adolescents, ages 13-1
5 years. Adolescents attending a metropolitan community-based afterschool p
rogram and their mothers were invited to participate in a 1-hour interview.
Mothers and adolescents were interviewed separately. The interview include
d questions about the type of information related to sexuality that adolesc
ents discussed with mothers, fathers, and friends; in addition, mothers wer
e asked what topics they discussed with their adolescents. Four hundred fiv
e adolescents and 382 mothers participated. Some mothers had more than one
adolescent in the study.
Results: The results showed that both male and female adolescents were more
likely to discuss sexual topics with their mothers than their fathers. Mal
e adolescents were more likely than female adolescents to discuss sex-based
topics with their fathers. Both male and female adolescents were less like
ly to discuss sex-based topics with their friends than with their mothers,
but more likely to discuss these topics with their friends than their fathe
rs. Content of conversations of male adolescents was fairly consistent amon
g mothers, fathers, and friends, and sexually transmitted disease/acquired
immune deficiency syndrome and condom use were popular topics of discussion
. Female adolescents tended to talk about the menstrual cycle with their mo
thers, sexual abstinence with their fathers, and sexual intercourse with th
eir friends. Adolescents who reported a greater number of topics discussed
with their mothers were more likely not to have initiated sexual intercours
e and to have conservative values, whereas adolescents who reported a great
er number of topics discussed with their friends were more likely to report
the initiation of intercourse and more "liberal" sexual values. Both male
and female adolescents were most comfortable discussing sexual issues with
their friends. Male adolescents were less comfortable talking to mothers, b
ut more comfortable talking to their fathers than were females. Mothers wer
e likely to report feeling very comfortable talking about almost all discus
sion areas. Fathers' comfort level was not measured, as they were not direc
tly questioned.
Conclusion: Early adolescence (13-15 years old) is characterized by more se
x-based discussions with mothers than friends or fathers. Daughters and son
s discuss different topics with their fathers, although discussion by both
genders with fathers is limited. If an adolescent talks more with the mothe
r about sexual issues than with friends, he/she is less likely to initiate
sexual intercourse and more likely to have conservative values. This points
to the importance of fostering good communication and comfort between pare
nts and adolescents about sexual issues. (C) Society for Adolescent Medicin
e, 1999.