The historiography on the English family is divided between those who
view the family as a sanctuary of emotional support and those who cons
ider it an institution of female oppression, sibling jealousy, and int
ergenerational rivalry. The detailed archives of the Barrett-Lennard f
amily reveal that this divide is mainly the product of a simplistic de
piction of family life in the past, which fails to take into account t
he shifts in family relationships. Moreover in examining patriarchy in
the home, historians have concentrated on the marital relationship, e
xcluding other male-female diads such as brother and sister. Finally t
hey have not yet thoroughly investigated patriarchy in action as oppos
ed to in principle. Patriarchy was so long-lasting not because its har
sh strictures were softened by affection but because the system contai
ned within it the necessary structures for mitigation.