Sr. Leiblum et Al. Aviv, DISCLOSURE ISSUES AND DECISIONS OF COUPLES WHO CONCEIVED VIA DONOR INSEMINATION, Journal of psychosomatic obstetrics and gynaecology, 18(4), 1997, pp. 292-300
Disclosing the use of donor insemination (DI) to family, friends, and
offspring poses a quandary for many DI patients. A cross-sectional sur
vey was conducted to determine whether couples opted to share informat
ion about conception via donor sperm with their children, as well as t
he issues and concerns that arose for parents once infertility treatme
nt was completed. Twenty-seven married heterosexual infertile husbands
and wives who had used DI to conceive completed a follow-up questionn
aire asking them about disclosure decisions as well as thoughts about
DI as a reproductive option. Results revealed that nearly three-quarte
rs of the sample had nor disclosed to their child and did not plan to,
although 85% had told at least one other person about conception via
DI. With few exceptions, husbands and wives agreed about hole to handl
e disclosure. Notably, 32% of the mothers reported not knowing when or
how to disclose. However, the majority of couples were not offered ps
ychological counseling prior or subsequent to DL It is suggested that
mental health professionals should be aware of the divergence of opini
on between what they believe about the benefits of disclosure/counseli
ng, the beliefs of infertile couples about disclosure and what is actu
ally known about the benefits of full disclosure among all involved pa
rties.