This study examined the associations between two factors of depressive
experience (dependency and self-criticism) and satisfaction in adult
romantic relationships. The Depressive Experiences Questionnaire, alon
g with measures of attachment and relationship satisfaction, were admi
nistered to 107 men and 140 women attending local community colleges.
Self-criticism was associated with global relationship distress and se
xual dissatisfaction. In a combined regression equation, measures of s
elf-criticism, attachment security, and attachment activation all cont
ributed to predicting general relationship distress. Only scores on se
lf-criticism predicted sexual dissatisfaction. The relationship dissat
isfaction reported by those with high scores on self-criticism appears
to be a relational aspect of the ''destructiveness of perfectionism''
described by Blatt.