There is a growing literature on the subject of sexuality and an incre
ased knowledge of sexuality and older people, but there is a dearth of
information about sexuality and people with dementia, particularly th
ose in residential care. The concern of this paper is with people with
dementia; it also considers the impact of gender on their sexual expr
ession. The expression of sexuality by people with dementia is an area
which has been largely neglected by research, yet in practice appears
to be of concern. The types and prevalence of sexual expression by pe
ople with dementia in residential care and staff's responses to such e
xpression are examined. A postal questionnaire sent to managers of soc
ial work residential homes in one region in Scotland explored a number
of different issues, including: the public versus private expression
of sexuality by people With dementia, the public response versus the p
rivate feelings of managers to such expression, the influence of carer
involvement on staff's responses, exploitation of one resident by ano
ther and sexual expression directed at staff by residents. Permeating
all these was the issue of gender. The majority of homes were staffed
predominantly by female managers and female care staff. Most residents
were female yet the majority of incidents involving sexual expression
, reported by managers, involved male residents directing their attent
ion towards female staff or other residents. Female residents with dem
entia do express sexuality but numbers reported are considerably less
with staff actions tending towards the protective. Some types of sexua
l expression appear to be of more concern than others, and some are re
ported to occur more frequently.