Quantitative research on paedophiles does not capture the psychologica
l meaning of child sexual molestation for the perpetrators. This quali
tative study attempted to address this aspect by exploring the subject
ive meaning of paedophilic experience for identified child molesters.
Data derived from transcribed open-ended interviews with six identifie
d paedophiles were analysed using an empirical phenomenological method
ology. The results challenge traditional stereotypes of child molester
s, and show this sample of paedophilic behaviour to originate from a r
ange of non-sexual motives primarily related to unmet childhood needs
for parental affection and affirmation. In this group, pervasive paedo
phile-to-be renouncing the dangerous world of adult sexuality, and tur
ing to children as substitute sources of emotional and physical intima
cy. The paedophile misinterprets children's emotional responsiveness a
s erotic interest, and takes great risks in his compulsive sexual purs
uit of children. The child's gender is unimportant as the paedophile i
s driven primarily by the need for affirmation and affection. Although
he avoids physically hurting his victims, the paedophile is unable to
acknowledge that they might be psychologically harmed by his actions.