The 1990s have seen various challenges to ''the established feminist o
rder'' around the issues of acquaintance rape and sexual harassment. I
n Australia, women who have come out of the 1960s ''second wave'' of f
eminism are dismayed with younger feminists who, they argue, see thems
elves as hapless victims of male sexual violence. In the United States
, this same argument is being made by an under-thirty generation of se
lf-styled feminists who see entrenched academic feminists, also of the
1960s generation, as the promoters of victim mythology. In this paper
I argue that those who make this argument, both in Australia and the
United States, do not fully appreciate the ways in which power and sex
uality are still heavily gendered. Furthermore, the effect of such a m
istaken analysis is to make male sexual violence more likely and to di
sempower those women who are fighting against it.