This article suggests that struggles regarding personal influence are
critical to understanding the supervisory process and the process of c
hange in psychoanalytic treatment. By the nature of their role, superv
isors and therapists seek to influence. Yet, they also fear having und
ue influence. Patients and supervisees, although seeking influence and
help, are also wary of the vulnerability to another individual that s
uch influence may entail. The essential question addressed in this art
icle is how the kind of personal influence that patients and supervise
es want and need-and also fear-can be enabled, given the conflicts abo
ut influence of all parties in the process. It is suggested that a pro
cess of reciprocal vulnerability to being influenced, in both the trea
tment and supervisory relationships, enables an atmosphere of safety a
nd the possibility of having an impact in return. Examples from clinic
al supervision illustrate these points.