Research on perpetrators of domestic violence suggests that acts of vi
olence may result from feelings of low personal central. Research on v
ictims suggests that domestic violence may undermine feelings of perso
nal control. Using a national sample, we consider how domestic violenc
e is related to personal control. We find that individuals who have in
itiated violence against a partner do not differ from individuals who
have nonviolent relationships in feelings of personal control. However
experiencing violence at the hands of a partner has significant adver
se effects on a sense of personal control for women, but not for men.
This suggests that violence, even when both the man and woman particip
ate, is more detrimental to the self-perceptions and well-being of wom
en than of men.