The intention of this research was not to justify the relinquishment o
f pets to shelters, but to provide a detailed and impartial view of th
e relinquisher's perspective. This perspective, as revealed in 38 inte
rviews, was contrary to the view of relinquishment that commonly preva
ils in shelter cultures; namely, that their decisions are trivial or c
asual. These interviews exposed a processes that began long before rel
eases were signed and animals were turned over to shelter staff. All o
f the individuals and families interviewed struggled with the decision
to give up their pets. This struggle often manifested as procrastinat
ion, as attachment issues and negative perceptions of shelters were ba
lanced against the circumstances threatening the pet's position in the
family. Attempts at resolution made by poorly informed pet owners wer
e frequently inefficient and consequently unsuccessful. Owners commonl
y tolerated circumstances until the reasons for relinquishment overcam
e attachment and negative perceptions of shelters.