Mealtimes reveal culturally specific ways of talking, and constitute o
pportunities for socialization of children into those ways. In 22 Norw
egian families and 22 American families, matched for age and gender of
preschool-aged child and for participant constellation, mealtimes wer
e examined for the occurrence and type of narrative and explanatory ta
lk. All indices suggested that the Norwegian families produced more na
rrative talk - in particular, talk about minor deviations from social
scripts - whereas the American families produced more explanatory talk
, particularly talk focused on explanations for physical events or for
individual behaviors. When Norwegian families gave explanations, they
were likely to be focused on social norms and deviations from them, l
ike their narratives. The results are interpreted in relation to the N
orwegian cultural values of mitigated collectivism, egalitarianism, ho
mogeneity, and implicit social rules, in contrast to American values o
f individualism, diversity, and explicit formulation and transmission
of civic values.