A group of 368 children, ages 3, 5, and 7, half boys and half girls, w
ere seen with their mothers and fathers in two contexts. First, they w
ere observed with all family members in their homes, with instructions
to continue with normal activities. Then they were seen separately in
the laboratory with each parent, who was asked to help them solve a p
roblem involving a common social situation. In the laboratory situatio
n, boys and girls were given equal amounts of help by their parents. M
others and fathers behaved in similar fashion in the laboratory, and t
he only significant differences were with the children's ages. In the
home, mothers and fathers did differ, with the mother giving more inst
ruction and providing more instruction to girls.