A model of the development of anger in family and peer contexts is pre
sented. Emotional socialization begins in early infancy, in the contex
t of parent-infant caretaking. Children's awareness and understanding
of their own and other people's anger depends on exposure to models of
anger expression and conflict resolution, parental emotional coaching
strategies such as discussing feelings and problem solving about emot
ion-based actions, coercive versus authoritative parenting practices,
and opportunities to engage in constructive conflict resolution with f
amily members. Emotional socialization in the home affects children's
physiological reactivity and physiological self-regulation, social inf
ormation processing, and behavioral strategies for anger-provoking sit
uations. When the child brings these characteristics to the peer arena
, anger and emotion management skills affect peer social status, agres
sive versus prosocial peer interactions and the ability to form and pr
ofit from close peer relationships. Implications for school psychologi
sts and other school personnel are discussed. (C) 1998 John Wiley & So
ns, Inc.