The literature regarding self-other comparisons suggests that self-enh
ancing perceptions are prevalent, including forms of ''illusion'' such
as excessively positive self-evaluation, unrealistic optimism, and ex
aggerated perceptions of control. Concepts from optimal distinctivenes
s theory served as the basis for two experiments examining whether ill
usion functions similarly when the context of evaluation involves a re
lationship. In both experiments participants rated themselves, the bes
t friend, and the average other-or their own romantic relationships, t
he best friend's relationship, and the relationship of the average oth
er-using scales measuring positivity of evaluation, optimism regarding
the future, and perceptions of control. In both experiments, particip
ants exhibited centrality-based differentiation, rating targets more f
avorably to the degree that the target was more central to their socia
l identity.Patterns of differentiation differed for the two contexts:
In the individual context, participants differentiated themselves and
their friends from the average other. In the relationship context, par
ticipants differentiated their own relationships from the relationship
s of friends and average others. Also, participants rated individuals
as more controllable than relationships. Participants in Experiment 2
provided information regarding potential predictors of illusion. Analy
ses of these data suggest that favorable centrality-based differentiat
ion may be partially accounted for by impression management, global se
lf-esteem (particularly in the individual context), and commitment lev
el (particularly in the relationship context).