Relationships with the users of social work are increasingly seen in p
rocedural, legal and administrative terms. However, research studies e
xamining both client satisfaction and intervention effectiveness regul
arly find that the psychosocial qualities of the worker-client relatio
nship are a major component in the success or otherwise of the service
offered The case is made that the psychological selves of both practi
tioners and users acquire many of their characteristics, including per
sonality, esteem, efficacy and defensive behaviours, within relationsh
ips throughout the lifespan. The level of social understanding and soc
ial competence that people develop depends on the quality of their rel
ationship history. if poor relationships are where psychosocial compet
ences go awry, then good relationships are where they are likely to re
cover. This observation as major implications for the quality, charact
er and skill of the relationship experiences offered to clients by soc
ial workers.