During the first years of life, children come to understand and talk a
bout a self separate from others. This study examined self- and other-
reference and communicative intents expressed by children and parents
in dyadic interaction at 14, 20 and 32 months. Research questions incl
uded whether children's early use of self- and other-reference pronoun
s occurred for expression of particular communicative intents, how use
changed with age, and whether parent and child pragmatic expressions
of self and other were similar. Results showed that children's early e
xplicit reference to self tended to take the form of I rather than me/
my/mine, and was used primarily in making statements about their inten
ded actions, in making requests or proposals to their parents and in s
tating propositions about the world around them. Children during this
developmental period were only beginning to refer to the present other
with the pronoun you and these instances occurred primarily in making
requests or proposals. Despite age-related increases in pronominal fo
rms and intents, a small set of intents continued to provide the conte
xt for most self- and other-reference pronouns. In the communicative c
ontexts in which they explicitly refer to self and other, children did
not appear to exclusively mirror those which were observed in parenta
l speech.