We argue that meta-dialog and meta-reasoning, far from being of only o
ccasional use, are the very essence of conversation and communication
between agents. We give four paradigm examples of massive use of meta-
dialog where only limited object dialog may be present, and use these
to bolster our claim of centrality for meta-dialog. We further illustr
ate this with related work in active logics. We argue moreover that th
ere may be a core set of meta-dialog principles that is in some sense
complete, and that may correspond to the human ability to engage in ''
free-ranging'' conversation. If we are right, then implementing such a
set would be of considerable interest. We give examples of existing c
omputer programs that converse inadequately according to our guideline
s. (C) 1998 Academic Press Limited.