Identity measures are derived for the infinite island model with separ
ate sexes and sex-differentiated contribution to gene flow. The concep
t of effective migration rate, m(e), is introduced, which describes th
e genetically effective flow when sexes migrate at different rates, wh
en females migrate as mated or when sexes differ in ploidy, as in the
case of X-linked genes or haplodiploidy. The notion of m(e) allows the
different cases to be described by the common equation F = 1/(1+4N(e)
m(e)). When the reproductive sex ratio differs from unity, migration o
f the rarer sex entails more effective gene flow than migration of the
common sex. With female dispersal after mating, as well as with ploid
y differences, the effective migration rate departs from the census ra
te, and migration of diploids and/or mated females normally homogenize
s the population more than the migration of haploids and unmated femal
es, as expected. This difference between the effective gene flow and t
he number of migrants contributes to a possible discordance between di
rect and indirect estimates of dispersal. At the same time, the expect
ed difference in genetic differentiation between autosomal and X-linke
d loci opens the possibility for revelation of sex-differentiated migr
ation, which may help resolve such instances.