The issue is addressed whether assistance to persons in need can be le
ft to the 'family' and the 'community'. In that case people depend on
their social networks. The support a person receives through a given n
etwork of social ties is examined. However, ties are diverse and subje
ct to change. By means of a model of the dynamics of social ties, the
conditions for adequate private support are analyzed. The sustainabili
ty of private support over time is examined by incorporating the impac
t on social ties of lending and receiving support. It is shown that su
pport is only an effective alternative in a limited number of situatio
ns.