N. Rodriguez et al., WITHHOLDING COMPLIMENTS IN EVERYDAY LIFE AND THE COVERT MANAGEMENT OFDISAFFILIATION, Journal of contemporary ethnography, 27(3), 1998, pp. 323-345
Employing the method of systematic self observation to study a meaning
ful nonaction in everyday life, this research found that compliments a
re regularly withheld from a deserving party In competitive situations
and when there is an upwelling of critical sentiment. The normative c
omplex and structural nature of compliments contribute to there being
a means of covertly managing disaffiliative sentiments.