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Two studies compared marital communication behaviors of violent and no
nviolent couples. In Study 1, violent distressed (VD) men reported mor
e husband demand-wife withdraw than did nonviolent men. Distressed men
reported less mutual constructive communication and more mutual blame
and avoidance than did nondistressed men. Interactions of VD, violent
nondistressed (VND), nonviolent distressed (NVD), and nonviolent nond
istressed couples were coded in Study 2. VD souses tended to engage in
the most demand and withdraw and the least positive behavior; violent
couples had the highest levels of contempt. On some codes, VND couple
s resembled NVD couples, suggesting that violence without distress may
correlate differently with marital communication than violence in com
bination with distress and that severity of violence is important to c
onsider.