This paper presents findings from a qualitative study of household and
community responses to HIV/AIDS in Mexico. Fieldwork took place in tw
o contrasting settings: (a) Ciudad Netzahualcoyotl, a socially margina
lized urban community and (b) the homosexual community of Mexico City,
a sexually marginalized social network. 113 in-depth interviews were
conducted with people with HIV/AIDS, their relatives and members of th
eir social networks. This paper describes findings from interviews con
ducted with family members of persons with AIDS. Four stages of respon
se are identified and characterized within each community: (1) life be
fore AIDS, (ii) life during the discovery of AIDS, (iii) living with a
person with AIDS and (iv) surviving those who have died from AIDS. Th
e social marginalization of both communities is central in explaining
how families respond to the disease. In Ciudad Netzahualcoyotl, social
support derives from a local culture of kinship. In the gay community
, on the other hand, solidarity arises out of friendship. Between soci
al support and discrimination, many more ''ambivalent'' behaviours (ne
ither fully supportive nor discriminating) are displayed by family mem
bers and friends. Fear, pre-existing family conflicts and prejudice nu
rture these negative responses. Family responses and the processes to
which they give rise, also differ depending on whether or not a male o
r female household member is affected. Policy recommendations are made
concerning how best to promote positive family and household response
s to persons with HIV/AIDS and how to inhibit negative ones. (C) 1998
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