This article presents a study of the experiences of 20 battered Israel
i women in the process of reaching the turning point in their experien
ce of abuse-the point at which they refused to live with violence and
took active steps to stop if while living with the perpetrators. The p
rocess needs to be understood as a series of losses on the personal an
d interpersonal levels that, taken together, lead to a total change in
the women's meaning systems.