This article suggests, on the basis of a national survey (N=1,035), that th
erapists engaged in marital and family therapy ender-se a common ethic of r
elationality. In contrast to a prevailing cultural view of therapists as pr
omoting an ethic of individualism, the survey suggests that for families th
ey place primary value on mutual and caring interpersonal relations. This e
thic holds across therapist gender and in therapists' particular view 's on
divorce, gender relations, and child rearing.