Male field crickets, Gryllus integer, in Texas, USA, produce a trilled call
ing song that attracts female crickets, resulting in enhanced mating succes
s. Gravid female parasitoid flies, Ormia ochracea, are also attracted to ma
le cricket calling song, resulting in the death of the male within about se
ven days. Using playbacks of field-cricket calling song in the natural habi
tat, we show that both female crickets and female parasitoid flies prefer m
ale calling song with average numbers of pulses per trill. Thus female cric
kets exert stabilizing sexual selection, whereas flies exert disruptive nat
ural selection on male song. Disruptive natural selection will promote gene
tic variation and population divergence. Stabilizing sexual selection will
reduce genetic variation and maintain population cohesiveness. These forces
may balance and together maintain the observed high levels of genetic vari
ation (ca. 40%) in male calling song.