Gossip initiations and listener responses were examined in conversatio
ns between 25 female-female, 19 male-male and 24 female-male pairs of
friends. Participants were 18 to 21 years of age (mean age = 19) and h
ad known one another at least 2 months (mean length = 24 months). Tran
scribed tape recordings of 5-minute unstructured conversations were an
alyzed for gossip initiations (evalutive comments about a familiar thi
rd person) and gossip responses (discouraging, neutral, mildly encoura
ging, moderately encouraging, highly encouraging). Overall, encouragin
g responses were more likely than discouraging or neutral responses. G
roup differences were also observed. Negative gossip was more likely t
han discouraging or neutral responses. Group differences were also obs
erved. Negative gossip was more likely to occur between female pairs t
han between male pairs or cross-gender pairs. Also, among female pairs
only, negative gossip was more likely than positive gossip. Furthermo
re, the female pairs tended to respond to evaluative gossip with highl
y encouraging comments. There were no gender differences within the cr
oss-gender pairs associated with any behaviors. The findings suggest t
hat women may be more likely than men to use and encourage gossip in s
ame-gender friendships in order to establish solidarity and make socia
l comparisons.