Given that so many children are exposed to domestic violence and that such
exposure is harmful to their short-as well as long-term functioning and wel
l-being, it is critical to understand why some caretakers act to protect th
eir children from the violence and others show greater passivity. To that e
nd, in-depth interviews were conducted with 26 women victims of domestic vi
olence, all of whom had children. The interviews addressed the women's feel
ings about and views of their children and their caregiving responses in th
e face of the violence. Two sets of themes emerged that help explain indivi
dual differences in protective and nurturing behaviors: adultification of c
hildren and psychological traps involving the batterer's role in the childr
en's lives. Based on these themes, recommendations for interventions to bet
ter serve the needs of battered women and their children are offered.