This single case study aimed to illustrate help-intended communication in c
ouples, in particular how a husband and wife attempted to help each other w
ith adjusting to the husband's recent myocardial infarction. The study empl
oyed a semi-structured communication task to gather samples of the couple's
helping interactions: the couple had two conversations in which they alter
nated helper and discloser roles. Quantitative and qualitative data were ob
tained from the couple and from expert raters (observers) about their persp
ectives of the conversations. The observers' ratings and verbal response mo
de patterns indicated that the conversations were characterized by low leve
ls of empathy and exploration of feelings and relatively high levels of hel
per disclosure and advice; overall, the observers found the conversations t
o be somewhat unhelpful. In contrast, the couple rated the conversations mo
re positively; the 'helpful events' they identified consisted of their part
ner disclosing a new piece of information and giving advice. The results we
re discussed in terms of the unique features of helping in close relationsh
ips.