In this paper we present a novel method of calculating hydrogen bond lifeti
mes that circumvents many of the problems encountered with existing methods
. The method is based on a three-level model in which the pair of molecules
are hydrogen bonded, not hydrogen bonded, or in an intermediate state; hyd
rogen bonds are identified within the intermediate stale according to how t
he dimer enters and leaves the intermediate state. An effective dimer inter
action energy is used to define these three stales. The hysteresis introduc
ed by this definition makes it possible to distinguish between large-amplit
ude vibrations in the hydrogen-bonding coordinates and real bond-breaking e
vents. The method is applied to a dilute aqueous glucose solution and shown
to generate hydrogen bond lifetimes that are in accord with both chemical
intuition and experiment.