Spiders, dung-feeding scarabs, social, and prey-storing insects provide pre
dictable and concentrated sources of food for a variety of thief flies (kle
ptoparasites) and their larvae. Whenever waiting in the vicinity of the "ho
st" for an opportunity to exploit its resources is more energy efficient an
d less dangerous than foraging among hosts, a number of intimate relationsh
ips between the fly and host may evolve. In extreme cases, flies may become
long-term phoretic associates that travel with hosts even while the latter
is in flight. The behaviors and ecologies of kleptoparasitic Diptera are r
eviewed with special attention paid to the adaptations of Sphaeroceridae ph
oretic upon Scarabaeidae. The mating systems of kleptoparasitic flies are i
nfluenced by the type of resource that is stolen; flies associated with pre
dators are mostly female, while those found on scarabs are of both sexes. T
hese differences are discussed in terms of mate location, sperm competition
, and mate choice.