Developing a more comprehensive understanding of social competence and the
reasons for social relationship difficulties requires attention to the kind
s of goals children are pursuing in specific social situations. In this art
icle, the authors describe several theoretical models of social information
processing, each of which includes goals as a crucial component in motivat
ing children's behavior. The authors also review evidence from studies of c
hildren who are aggressive, withdrawn/submissive, or prosocial that points
to an association between children's goals, their strategies for coping wit
h problematic social tasks, and their ultimate success or failure in social
relationships. Attention is also given to various social-cognitive process
es that may be linked to children's tendencies to formulate adaptive versus
maladaptive goals. Finally, the implications of a social goals perspective
for interventions with children with emotional and behavioral problems is
discussed.