Relatives and other people who visit residential care homes have an opportu
nity to formulate their own views about the quality of care, often over a c
onsiderable period of time. They may be experienced in providing care thems
elves, and many have been the principal carer before admission of the resid
ent. They can be decision makers in purchasing care, and their preferences
will therefore influence the market. Finally, through their frequent attend
ance, they too form part of the environment of a home. This paper reports t
he findings of a survey of 228 visitors to 17 residential care homes throug
hout England. It shows who the visitors were, what they did, their likes, d
islikes and ideas for improvements. It summarizes what aspects were most im
portant to visitors, many of whom were former carers; this has implications
for purchasers and providers of residential care. It closes with a methodo
logical discussion about how the valuable views of visitors may be tapped w
ithout encountering reticence due to guilt or fear of retribution affecting
the resident.