This paper examines changing attitudes towards women with learning difficul
ties within the culture of normalisation. It builds on earlier critiques of
the normalisation principle and, whilst welcoming these, argues the case f
or looking at women in particular. The authors review literature on sex edu
cation for people with learning difficulties to illustrate rite ways in whi
ch gender has been ignored and women's sexuality has been treated. Writing
from their perspective as lesbian feminists, they explore the oppressive na
ture of sex education in a culture that places a premium on normality. The
paper ends with a discussion of alternative ways for women with learning di
fficulties to gain a sense of identity and belonging.