Some theorists have provided insight into the phenomenon of disability, and
others have provided conceptual notions of childhood. Still others have pr
ovided theoretical expectations of what life is like for a child when mothe
r or father has a disability or chronic illness. When children whose parent
s have multiple sclerosis described their own experiences, much of what the
orists had postulated was a poor fit with children's responses. This paper
will explore differences between children's descriptions of life with a par
ent who has MS, and the theoretical expectations of what their lives should
be like according to previous literature. The paper concludes with the sug
gestions that historical sociology, with its recognition of both agency and
structure interacting over time, may be an effective way to understand any
one's place on the disability/empowerment continuum, and may serve to illum
inate the pathway of children with disabled parents in particular.