Flirting, bantering, and other sexual interactions are commonplace in work
organizations. Not all of these interactions constitute harassment or assau
lt; consensual sexual relationships, defined as those reflecting positive a
nd autonomous expressions of workers' sexual desire, are also prevalent in
the workplace and are the focus of this paper. We begin by reviewing resear
ch on the distinction between sexual harassment and sexual consent. Next we
examine popular and business literatures on office romance. Finally we dis
cuss sociological research on consensual sexual relationships, including re
search on mate selection, organizational policy, and workplace culture. We
argue that sexual behaviors must be understood in context, as an interplay
between organizational control and individual agency.