We tested a model of prosocial development, which predicted that prosocial
action might decline, not increase, throughout childhood, becoming increasi
ngly selective, individual, gender-related, and linked to emotional dysregu
lation. Sixty-six focal children at 18, 24, or 30 months of age were observ
ed at home with familiar peers and then again 6 months later. Episodes of p
eer interaction were analysed for instances of sharing. The predicted decli
ne in sharing with age was qualified by cohort differences and many associa
tions with gender. Most children shared less as they grew older, but the ol
dest girls slightly increased their rate of sharing over time. As peer rela
tionships developed, girls were more likely to share with other girls; boys
were more likely to show reciprocity in sharing. Individual differences in
sharing were moderately stable over time and linked to another form of pro
social action, sensitivity to the peer's distress. As predicted, children w
ho shared at higher rates were rated more negatively by their mothers. The
positive relationship between prosocial action and mothers' ratings of nega
tive personality traits was especially strong for boys.