What is "knowing" in psychotherapy? What impact does it have on patients an
d therapists? Does knowing have moral relevance? This paper explores these
questions through traditional, feminist, and psychoanalytic critiques of ep
istemology, Countertransference issues are addressed, including a discussio
n of therapists' resistances to knowing about their patients' realities. Th
e author proposes that when therapists can truly "know" their patients, and
patients are able to know themselves, moral responsiveness and accountabil
ity ensue.