The complexity of the relationships between parents and teachers rests not
only on the ambiguity of their shared interests but in the way in which off
icial policies affect them. This study, based on qualitative ethnographic r
esearch, explores teacher's, headteacher's and home/school liaison worker's
experience of and attitudes towards the relationship between schools and p
arents. The research focuses on the differences between the desire to have
closer and mutually supportive relationships and the various impediments, b
oth psychological and the result of government policies. Only by understand
ing how deeply relationships are affected by the different barriers can the
latter be overcome.