The practice of computing correlations between "difference" or "discrepancy
" scores and an outcome variable is common in many areas of social science.
Relationship researchers most commonly use difference scores to index the
(dis)similarity of members of two-person relationships. Using an intuitive,
graphical approach-and avoiding formulas and pointing fingers-we illustrat
e problems with using difference score correlations in relationship researc
h, suggest ways to ensure that difference score correlations are maximally
informative, and briefly review alternatives to difference score correlatio
ns in studying similarity, accuracy, and related constructs.